Life is not like an arranged design, it always changes. And more you try to catch it, it play hide and seek with you.
Life is a bird who sings
Life is a weed who expands even all try to kill it
Life is a foam a bubble
Life is smile on your face
Life is your sweat and your blood
Life is swwet like honey and bitter like a pill
What is Life I wonder--
How it changes colours every moment
Morning I was so happy and evening I am sad!
Life is a continuation to touch eternity which you can not touch!
Life is a game, it has many rules, still it givs you oppertunity to cheer;
Life is freedom, it is a open space where you have free access
Even you do not need permission of any so-called big boss
Life is an invitation
Life is an oppertunity
Life is a bliss given to all by our most beloved God.
Sunday, December 28, 2008
Life is Conflict
When I face a Conflict especially with a loved one I feel very sad, I become quiet, then I start analyse the situation; why it hapened, what is my role, my responses, how I reacted, what gone wrong? Why I could not communicate properly? Why I am misunderstood? I discover my weak points and repair it. Next time I use my learnings to respond, still Conflict happens. Some one truely has told that only dead persons has no conflict; I am living and my responses sayI am trying to live a better life.
Conflict is a part of life, it is a pattern of relating also. In day-to-day life, with the person you have more affection, you face more conflict. Conflict also says that the relation is alive. This helps you to express yourself with honesty; in formal office structures you have very less open conflict, as you follow a structured pattern of behaviour only and never cross the line. In a intimate relation you throw away the formal behaviour, be yourself and bare yourself openly. You dare to expose your opinions, your love and hate. This may cause conflict with your mate who may be of other characteristic.
In spousal conflicts, if you both are honest to each other, the conflict ends in deeper understanding. If there is an unequal feelings conflict may create an artificial coating on self, if you want to save the relation; then you start posing and avoid conflict and you create a formal set of behaviour. This is an unfortunate sutuation, as persons do not or trust each other, but stay together with some purpose only. This weakens the relationship.
If you dare to bear more and provide more room to openess and honest expression, you may invite conflict, but your relations becomes more stronger and also you are. Artificiality in behaviuor weakens personality so also the realtionship.
Conflict is a part of life, it is a pattern of relating also. In day-to-day life, with the person you have more affection, you face more conflict. Conflict also says that the relation is alive. This helps you to express yourself with honesty; in formal office structures you have very less open conflict, as you follow a structured pattern of behaviour only and never cross the line. In a intimate relation you throw away the formal behaviour, be yourself and bare yourself openly. You dare to expose your opinions, your love and hate. This may cause conflict with your mate who may be of other characteristic.
In spousal conflicts, if you both are honest to each other, the conflict ends in deeper understanding. If there is an unequal feelings conflict may create an artificial coating on self, if you want to save the relation; then you start posing and avoid conflict and you create a formal set of behaviour. This is an unfortunate sutuation, as persons do not or trust each other, but stay together with some purpose only. This weakens the relationship.
If you dare to bear more and provide more room to openess and honest expression, you may invite conflict, but your relations becomes more stronger and also you are. Artificiality in behaviuor weakens personality so also the realtionship.
Wise India
Satyam Shivam Sundaram means Satya (eternal) is the Peace and the ultimate Beauty. God is satyam Shivam Sundaram. He is Saat, Chit and Ananda means He is Eternal, He is the Mind and He is the Joy. He is the creator of all everything living and inanimate. He loves everyone and He is always unbias. He Works always and His creations also runs every moment; nothing is static, every hing changes according to Time. He is the Mahakaal, means the Eternal Time. He has created Life of all and He is the master of all. He is the father, the Mother, He is the Friend and Best friend. He is the Matters and He is the Qualities and He is manifested to us as different forms of Gods.
Who is HE? What is He? Why He creates Life? Why we are here to do What works? Lord Krishna Told to Arjuna--All works are mine only, you offer all your works to me and do your duties; you are here to do your duty, thinking for achivements is not your works. You do your Duty and the Results are of mine. You should work to lead people to a exemplary way, not for your personal benefit; you should work so that people learn from you and follow you.
Common people first think of Result, set target of Achievements, ensure the Profit then work. this type of work is called as common / ordinary work, one need to do to maintain one's own existence. Common men spend their whole Life this this type of ordinary work and they compete struggle and even fight to do so and enjoy the success and weeps in failures. Lord Krishna Told, You should not discourage common man to do such works, because they do not know Me, they get enjoyments in doing works related to their own hope and aspiration. Let them be engage in their works; by working such also some of them become aware of Eternal self and start to dedicate time to know self and know Me. I bless all whether they know Me or not, pray to Me or not, trust me or not.
Those who are Jnani (wise) only know that real work is to engage in my works, i.e. creating and developing the World and Love all existences and work for all. While they do my works there is no Sucess or Failure, that is a continuous process of work, they dedicate the work and the end to Me and never aspire for name & fame. After completing their works they come back to me and mingles with me, they never go back to take rebirth in this painful world. They become free soul.
All are part of Me whether a wise or a common man and I love all equally. I give equal oppertunity to all and support all equally. But a wise can feel my presence, my affection, but others seldom can recognise it. And by feeling my Love a Wise man lives a calm & peaceful life, he never gets strained or stressed by the difficulties of life.
Yestaday, while visiting a temple I listened three men sitting near the stairs and discussing about Lord Narayana. One was speaking other two listening. The man told, " see in the summer the House with a thach coating roof becoming less hot than a House whose roof is made of asbestos. Now if the house owner of the asbestos roofed house tells, Sun is more hard and cruel on me and kind on other one, should you consider as true? Sun gives equal light and warmth to all houses, now it is up to you how do you make your houses to get more or less light & warmth of Sun. Exactly like this God is open handed to all of us with His never ending Kindness and Love, but you have to prepare yourself, so that you can realise Him and know His Love." I looked to him stunned--the man looked so ordinay in appearance could explain the Love of God so simply and so perfectly! This the Wise India!
Who is HE? What is He? Why He creates Life? Why we are here to do What works? Lord Krishna Told to Arjuna--All works are mine only, you offer all your works to me and do your duties; you are here to do your duty, thinking for achivements is not your works. You do your Duty and the Results are of mine. You should work to lead people to a exemplary way, not for your personal benefit; you should work so that people learn from you and follow you.
Common people first think of Result, set target of Achievements, ensure the Profit then work. this type of work is called as common / ordinary work, one need to do to maintain one's own existence. Common men spend their whole Life this this type of ordinary work and they compete struggle and even fight to do so and enjoy the success and weeps in failures. Lord Krishna Told, You should not discourage common man to do such works, because they do not know Me, they get enjoyments in doing works related to their own hope and aspiration. Let them be engage in their works; by working such also some of them become aware of Eternal self and start to dedicate time to know self and know Me. I bless all whether they know Me or not, pray to Me or not, trust me or not.
Those who are Jnani (wise) only know that real work is to engage in my works, i.e. creating and developing the World and Love all existences and work for all. While they do my works there is no Sucess or Failure, that is a continuous process of work, they dedicate the work and the end to Me and never aspire for name & fame. After completing their works they come back to me and mingles with me, they never go back to take rebirth in this painful world. They become free soul.
All are part of Me whether a wise or a common man and I love all equally. I give equal oppertunity to all and support all equally. But a wise can feel my presence, my affection, but others seldom can recognise it. And by feeling my Love a Wise man lives a calm & peaceful life, he never gets strained or stressed by the difficulties of life.
Yestaday, while visiting a temple I listened three men sitting near the stairs and discussing about Lord Narayana. One was speaking other two listening. The man told, " see in the summer the House with a thach coating roof becoming less hot than a House whose roof is made of asbestos. Now if the house owner of the asbestos roofed house tells, Sun is more hard and cruel on me and kind on other one, should you consider as true? Sun gives equal light and warmth to all houses, now it is up to you how do you make your houses to get more or less light & warmth of Sun. Exactly like this God is open handed to all of us with His never ending Kindness and Love, but you have to prepare yourself, so that you can realise Him and know His Love." I looked to him stunned--the man looked so ordinay in appearance could explain the Love of God so simply and so perfectly! This the Wise India!
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
What is Life
I read a story about a small Dove, who was living in a hole of big building. One day the building got fire, all the birds started fleeing. The Dove saw a watery pot near by, she started to take a drop of water in her beck, fly on the fire and pour the water. Birds who saw this was laughing at her efforts, but she told--it is my duty, I am also an inhabitant of this building. At last the fire was extinguished by constant efforts of all men, none gave any credit to the Dove, but a poet saw her and wrote a poem on her hardwork. But the Dove never knew it, she came back to her room and she was happy that the house is saved. She thanked God and became very happy and started singing.
I think I am also working like this Dove, my works are not remarkable in the context of this big World, but I am happy and cheerful as I am doing my Duty.
Life is Love for me-- Love with no expectation of return.
I think I am also working like this Dove, my works are not remarkable in the context of this big World, but I am happy and cheerful as I am doing my Duty.
Life is Love for me-- Love with no expectation of return.
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