Life is to dissolve EGO

Often I look to my Life to find that many times I showed much Ego to people, even to friends and relatives. I thought I am very good person and I should hold myself up; and to uphold myself I often forget that the other person also may be good even better at heart. I always thought myself a special person, very honest and upright and I deserve a special treatment! I denied to mix with 'just anyone' and looked for exceptional persons to befriend! Alas! I have very few friends and even many friends, whom I want are dreaded of me, I always thought, WHY? I am so good, still I have very few people with me! It is so unjust, none understands me!

But now only recently I engaged a worker who is good in work, but suffering the same disease of Egoism. I can feel her, she thinks she is so good and always tries to advertise it very rudely. I do not like her, even if her work is Ok. I pity her now for her attitude.

Now I understand what mistake I have done in my Life. I am now ashamed of myself. In my Ego and self-glorification I have hurt even my Parents, My friends and many relatives and even my Life-partner, my most lovable Hubby.

To enjoy life and make life sucessful one have to shake off all Ego and be transparent. It is not easy, still I have started to practice it. and I have a hope that My Life will be a Better Place hence forth.

Life is Duty

Last one year I am continuously searching for meaning of Life; what is Life ? Why we are here? What we are doing? What I am doing here? Many times may answers flashed in mind and I have written those in this Blog. Last week I called Guddu, my son, whom I suddenly got during a hospital visit in Bhubaneswar--he called me "Mom" --a strong, decent and sensitive boy of 22/23 years; I was struck by his soberness and smiles. Last week when I talked with Guddu over phone and told him 'keep smiling', he replied "Mom you are olded and wiser, still may I tell you something --It is best that one understand one's Duty earliest and perform it in Life. Now it is up to You whether you do it while Smile or Weep". So easy so simple way of defining Life and so hard to follow! I have no word to praise his wiseness and sincerity.

Life is to stop expecting from others.

Life is to stop expecting from others. As long as you are expecting anything from other people, be it a material or an emotion, you can not obtain peace & happiness. You will always stand expecting and the hope is not fulfilled, so you will be sad or angry or fearfull or jealous. It will haunt you and you may enter quarrel & conflict also. In this world, every body is standing before other with lots of expectation--your parents expect care & love, your friends want cooperation, colleagues want good behaviour, respect, childen wants love & gift etc many more and you are also expecting many thing from others. These expectation only causes all conflict and dissatisfaction.; but we go on lingering on it. If you do a good work you expect others to praise you, if you love someone you hope it will be reciprocated. And this lead to heaps of expectation and we live only with expectations......Stop expecting and you see you feel better even great and very free & happy. Free youself from all expectations. One may ask how I can do it; because even if I stop expecting, others are not going to stop it--they will expect and even demand from me love, duty, care, and all... I have to give them, so why should I stop expecting from them? Thus you can make Life only a Deal.... and this is making Life more and more complicated and conflicting even miserable. Once you can feel that Life is to undo expectation you are a free man! happy and graceful naturally.

Life is a miracle

Life is a miracle. We search for security and insure Life, but can you really save yours or anyone's life, whose term is over? Being with so many relatives and friend insured in the comfort of good job and good house, protected by so many expert doctors, people suddenly leave the world. Why it happens? Who can tell us.

Life is a Simulation game

Life is a Simulation game designed and facilitated by GOD; you need not worry for the end result, Win or Lose it has the same meaning if you follow the rules of the game. Your duty is to play your role honestly, effectively and with full concentration; you will learn a lot from the process. keep Learning and keep Changing--be open to accept and assimilate, give and develop and you will be enjoying Life like sweet fragrance.

Life is to face the World

Life is to face the world--either face the World, meet its challenges or Face the darkness and dejection. If you get fearful to Light you have to retire in Darkness.

Facing Light is not easy, there are many challenges, many competitions and many comparisons, envy, rudeness, fight, conflict also, but if you dare not to Face these and hide your face, can live in Peace?

You can't get Peace of mind and happiness if you hide in Dark; there is no escape actually from the Challenge; in dark you will be challenged by the feelings of being imcompetant, ridiculous, worthlessness, selfishness and all other related negetives.

It is not easy to Face the world--But it is also more tough to withdraw from it; withdrawal will be demolishing effect on you and destroy your confidence, on which you live actually.

By facing the World you may not Win every time, but you can WIN next time; there is always a way open and leading to your worth.

Hide your face and you are more cornered by the World.

There is no Escape; World will not leave you, it will laugh on you and mock your helpless face.

Either you Face the World or World will stare on your face like a demon!

Life is an open sea and an open sky; you have endless oppertunities here, if you decide to take challenges and explore. It is the most enjoyable place if you are balanced and steady on your oar and know to float on waters of problems. Life offers everything to one who Dares. Trust in yourself, coordination with environments around including human, animals and whom we think as inanimates and unwaivered faith on God is the Best Formula to Live life as a Human being.